There is the difference of earth and sky between the thinking and nature of boys and girls. Where a boy likes a girl by her looks, her voice or by her smile, a girl sees something else in a boy. A girl starts getting proposals when she grows up, but she can’t accept them all. If she chooses one of the suitors then there are certainly some reasons behind her choice.
If you are in a relationship or questing for some good girl, then you must be well known about her likes and dislikes. Following things would make your love eternal and everlasting.
1. YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS
There are no protocols or rules that should be followed while talking to your close friends. Even slang is the common language of best friends. But if you are talking to your beloved or your crush, then you should be very careful about your talks. Boasting yourself or talking about status on her cost or using free language is a very bad idea. While talking to a girl, be in your limits. Be gentle and have patience. Don’t talk about useless or irrelevant things. Be a man!
2. BE HONEST
Well said by wise men, that honesty is the best policy. It matters in our life but it does matter very much in case of girls. Always be honest to your girl. Remember, telling lies or making excuses or hiding your problems from her will not pay. Tell her about your problems, your aims, your sorrows or joy and what so ever. It does not mean that she will find you some solution, but she will like you more, believe you more and will also be closer to you.
3. ASK HER WHAT MAKES HER BLISSFUL AND HAPPY
If you are in a relationship, don’t be just a dumb cow. Discover her. Ask her all sorts of questions relating to her life (except for the lustful ones) and particularly ask her about the things that make her happy. A girl loves such boy who tends to discover the things that make her happy and does accordingly.
4. BE CARING
It is perhaps one of the most important things in a relationship. Always care for her. Care her in all her ups and downs. Care her when the world is hurting her. Be like her father i.e. forgive her when she makes some mistake and also be like her brother i.e. be her protector and solve all sorts of her problems. Remember, girl is made by Almighty to be kept in heart, so let her be the permanent citizen of your heart.
5. RESPECT HER AS WELL OTHERS AS WELL
Respecting your girl and even others is very important. If you respect her, she will respect you and if you respect others, she will have faith in your goodness and will be proud to have you and will talk proudly about you among her friends. Never disrespect her in one way or the other, because she may forgive you but she will never forget it in her life.
6. HAVE A GOOD LOOK AND DON’T BE LIKE ONE IN THE CROWD
A girl likes a boy who is serious about his looks. Maintain a good personality and have a thirst for simple but good looking attire. Never be like one in the crowd. A unique person catches many eyes. Be unique, be well dressed and give some time to your looks as well.
7. SUPPORT HER IN HER MATTERS AND BE COOPERATIVE
If a girl loves you truly, she will share her fears, her problems, her sorrows etc with you. Listen to her carefully and support her. When she is telling you about her problems, it never means that you have to find solution every time, but she just wants your support and encouragement. So whenever she tells you about her problems encourage her and fill hope in her.
8. MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL
Never treat your girl like an ordinary one. If she has submitted herself to you, it does not mean that she does not except anything. She certainly desires that her lover may always treat her like someone special. She should feel like a princess while talking to you. Admire her and complement her often. But remember overdoing this will have negative effect. Be frank while complementing.
9. BE STRONG FOR HER
While accepting a proposal, a girl is always sceptic about her future. Always be strong for her so that she may feel her future secure with you. A girl always likes such boys with whom she feels protected and with whom she feels that her future will be secure. So always lend a helping hand when she is in trouble.
10. GIVE HER FREEDOM
A girl likes a person who gives her liberty and freedom. If a girl has given you her heart, then never keep narrow attitude towards her. Tracking her and doubting her and restricting her is a very bad idea. Let be her your doll. Let her feel full liberty and freedom with you.
Remember guys, making a relationship is easy but maintaining it is very difficult, so try be good and bold in your relationship and maintain it even on the cost of your ease and ego.