Reaching the peak is not achievement, remaining there is!
You may propose a girl and she may accept it, but you cannot call it an achievement because falling in relation is really easy but keeping it alive is a hard and challenge-able task. Most of the relations remain for not more than 9 months due to several reasons like sexual talks, restrictions, too much of everything etc. So after being committed, keep following things in mind to become a good boyfriend and not to lose your partner.
1. TOO MUCH OF EVERYTHING
Too much pays too much destruction. Moderation is one of the most important things that should be followed in relation. Loving or caring too much will make your girlfriend to lose interest in you and she will start taking you for granted and you will get hurt by insignificant things and your life will become hell.
You will become just a commoner for her and she will start ignoring you which gives birth to quarrels and ultimately the big bang!
I don’t ask you to stop loving her, but to love her moderately. Be a cool and moderate guy.
2. MAKING HER TO WANT YOU
Always keep yourself busy in your work and never subdue yourself to her. Instead make her to respect you by loving and respecting yourself for what you are. Always make her to believe that you are happy with your life and there isn’t any need of “someone” to complete it. Remain independent guy and let her to be a part of your life instead of making yourself a part of her life.
3. NEVER FORCE HER
It is one of the worst mistakes made by boys that lead to breakups. Boys force their girlfriends to say “I Love you” or forcing her to send her pics or to do something that she is unwilling to do. Let her accomplish everything on her own. Pretend that you don’t care for such things and make her feel free. If she says “I love you” or sends her photos or sings a song for you then be grateful but never mind when she doesn’t do so.
4. A SIMPLE BYE THAN BEG
Never force, or I would say, beg a girl to talk to you if she says ‘Talk you later’ or ‘I am busy’ or ‘Bye’. If you start begging her to talk to you, you will lose your self-respect and attitude. Be a king of guy who doesn’t care. When she says ‘bye’ simply say ‘Ok’. It will make her restless. She will get attracted to you and will respect you.
5. GIVE PRIORITIES TO YOUR RELATIVES AND INTIMATES
Most of the boys after falling in love give priorities which affect their self-respect. Never, never in your life love your girlfriend on the cost of your family and intimates. Love your girlfriend but also realise her that you care for your family and intimates well and will retain these priorities.
6. USE INDIRECT SPEECH AND GIVE UP ANGER
Well said by some wise that ‘beware from anger as it is one word away from danger;. If you want to keep your relation till marriage then keep in mind that anger is your worst enemy. Never get angry with your girlfriend. If you want to make her realise her mistake, do it indirectly. If you said with anger, it will hurt her and frequent hurts will lead to breakup.
Best of luck!